Friday, June 7, 2013
Sunday, January 20, 2013
Building A Nation's Character
We are
witnessing increasing violence all around. This disturbing trend is affecting
our life to
the core and changing our priorities. It is re-enforcing the need to carefully
imbibe the relevant social values and ethics in our education system and
curriculum. At KITE School we introspect and review the study pattern and
activities periodically. It is important to understand that value-education
must start right from the preschool days. Child’s behaviour pattern should be
monitored and should be corrected, if needed. Here ‘correction’ does not mean
aggression. Parents should work towards attaining desired results with
affectionate and tender training. More importantly, we should inculcate social
and human values in children not by preaching or
‘teaching’ but rather by showing them in our daily life
interactions. Children observe and learn and internalize.
When children watch adults’ behaviour, they take it
as approved social norm, they take it as a model in their sub-conscious mind.
Therefore various models, derived from ‘watching’ different day to day
situations, accumulate in the sub-conscious and a certain character starts
building up in the child’s personality. Therefore it is utmost important that
we behave consciously in front of our children. It is also equally important
that we do not expose our children to inappropriate situations, scenes and
media. We need to set proper example, we need to provide proper paradigm.
Every
incident leaves a mark, every experience leaves an imprint. This is how
children develop sense of truth, equality, empathy, justice and commitment.
This is how society gets healthy and happy. This is how a nation’s character is
built. This is how we get sons and daughters who make us proud!
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Wednesday, October 24, 2012
Learn How Children Learn
Festive season is in full bloom now. Navratri celebrations are just concluded. The music and rhythm of Garbas and dandiyas are still ringing in the atmosphere. Dassera is being celebrated today and Eid is just
around the corner. Diwali and Christmas are not far behind.
Festivals break the
routine. Festivals bring joy. Festivals are universal stress-busters. And,
I think, learning process should be exactly that… a life-long stress-buster … a
festival forever!
Learning
would be a festival forever… if we remove the burden from it, if it seems all
play, if it is accepted as a gift, if
it brightens relationships, if it brings families together, if it adds something new every time
with the familiar, if it
inspires, if it involves, if it is an endless celebration!
And
when it happens that way, children learn. Children explore and learn from
experiences. Children observe and learn by imitating. Children learn by memorizing and recall. If this process is set right then overall development is
set into motion.
Children
will learn well if adults learn about how small children learn.
Wishing
you joyous celebrations!
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Tuesday, September 18, 2012
Learning From The Spirit Of Festivals
Festive season has already begun and one can hear the drums
welcoming Maharashtra’s favourite Ganapati Bappa at the doorstep. And the worst
fear of drought is swept away with enough downpours lately. So, there is
relief, there is joy, there is celebration.
Let me wish you all a very happy and blissful festive
season. Festivals have this inherent feeling of joy and excitement. And that is
the soul of the process of true learning. I genuinely think that learning is a
lifelong festival. All that we yearn in learning is embedded in the spirit of
festivals… social values, joy of giving, celebration of life, knowing, sharing,
helping, enjoying, happiness and bliss.
Let the child be a part of festivals. And that should not be
limited to shopping only. Children learn a great deal through participation.
Make the child a part of the whole process… explain little things, answer the
queries—no matter how trivial they seem, interact and ask about his/her
reactions…
Children are never too small to learn!!!
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Tuesday, August 21, 2012
Child's Brain Building: Parents Have A Big Role To Play
A mom of a playgroup child told me last week how happy
she is to notice the numerous learnings her child has picked up so soon. She is
also happy to see the new positive changes in her child. We often get such
reactions and compliments. And, of course, it reinforces our faith in our
methodology. But today I would like to share the next step in the process of
‘Brain Building’ of your child.
This is what you should be doing – helping the child to use a ‘connection’ repeatedly so that it becomes permanent in the brain. Repeat and revise what your child is learning at school. Please note that we are not promoting rote-learning. It should not be memorizing by repetition, it should be understanding, perceiving and comprehending by revision. And it should be fun. No stress, no strain. A regular routine will help a long way.
Let us figure it out. A child is
born with over 100 billion or 10000 crores brain cells or neurons – sixteen
times the world population! And each of these cells is capable of making over
15000 connections. Through these ‘connections’ a child internalizes the
experiences and acquires new learnings. Now, what should be our role?
Obviously, learnings
should be preserved and the stock should grow. Interestingly this stock does
NOT grow automatically like a savings bank account. It will rather vanish if
not strengthened. Yes, if they are not used, the learning pathways are obliterated. This
is called the “use it or lose it” principle. This is what you should be doing – helping the child to use a ‘connection’ repeatedly so that it becomes permanent in the brain. Repeat and revise what your child is learning at school. Please note that we are not promoting rote-learning. It should not be memorizing by repetition, it should be understanding, perceiving and comprehending by revision. And it should be fun. No stress, no strain. A regular routine will help a long way.
Sensory learnings,
activity-centric knowledge and words-phrases based language connections should
be inculcated in the early years. Parents have a big role to play in this.
You’ll be happy for doing this as you’ll proudly see your little one
blooming.
As they say, ‘the
first years last forever’.
Friday, January 13, 2012
How to answer those never ending questions?
Children come up with series of questions and counter questions. Sometimes these questions may seem totally nonsensical and absurd. Many parents lose patience and end up the whole conversation abruptly with mild snubbing… “Now, it’s enough. Stop asking too many questions.” or “Your questions never end… now go and play.” or something like that.
This is a flawed attitude as a parent. If you’ll see it from child’s point of view, you’ll be able to justify it. And that is important.
We must understand that questions are means of learning. Asking questions is a positive sign in children because it means that the child analyses. Every question, no matter how silly or absurd it may seem, is born of curiosity. And curiosity should be nurtured, not suppressed. I do agree that even the most articulate and informed parents can’t find satisfying answers to the countless questions of the child. But more than the right answers, right response is required.
Please do not snub—it makes the child feel ashamed. Try to understand that until now you have provided most of the ‘information’ the child has. That is why the child is trying to get answers from you. You should be responsive. A very young child may not understand scientific explanation, so be imaginative and creative. Do not give false information. Retain your child’s faith in you.
Your answers will build the treasure chest of knowledge of your child… that sprouts out of the magical domain of curiosity!
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